One Big Queer 1st Date | CT Queer Dating Show
Connecticut’s freshest queer dating experience—where consent, comedy, and community take center stage!
November 29th, 2025 6PM Bergen House Middletown, CT
Consent First
Green, yellow, and red consent cards ensure everyone’s boundaries are respected every step of the way. You’re always in control of your comfort level.
Comedy & Joy
MC Mixmaster Cayes The Travel Guy keeps the laughs flowing and the energy electric. This isn’t just dating—it’s entertainment!
Crowd-Powered
The audience doesn’t just watch—they participate! From asking questions to voting on matches, the crowd shapes the entire evening’s energy and outcomes.
Dance Party Finale
Every show ends with DJ Mixmaster Cayes & Friends spinning the hottest tracks while contestants, audience, and mascots celebrate queer joy together on the dance floor.
Adjust Your Crown & Slay On Down!👑
No sidelines here—everyone’s part of the fun.
One Big Queer 1st Date | CT Queer Dating Show
Adapted from Boston’s “It’s A Queer Date!”
Ready to find love, make friends, or just have the wildest night of your life? Our online application is designed to celebrate who you truly are—playful questions about your personality, what makes you tick, and what you’re genuinely looking for in a connection.
Like The Price is Right, audience members come hoping to be chosen as one of the four main contestants to join the stage. But even if you’re not selected for the spotlight, the entire audience is on one big group date together! Everyone who shows up is part of the dating experience, so you don’t have to be a stage contestant to find love or make connections. Being in the audience is being part of the date. We select four fabulous contestants per show who bring authenticity, energy, and openness to the stage. Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just an unforgettable experience, we want to hear from you! All identities, expressions, and relationship styles are celebrated here.
The application takes about 10 minutes and asks fun questions like your ideal date scenario, your boundaries, and what song would be your grand entrance anthem. Be yourself—that’s exactly who we want!
Buckle Up Buttercup
How the Show Unfolds
Each One Big Queer 1st Date event is a carefully choreographed evening of surprises, laughter, and genuine connection. Here’s what to expect when you step into our world of queer dating magic!Your Attractive Heading
Round 1: Grand Entrances & Introductions
Choose Your Anthem
Each contestant enters to their personally selected walk-on song, This is your moment to shine and show the crowd who you are before you even say a word.
Quick-Fire Intros
Share your name, pronouns, a fun fact, and “one thing you want the audience to know about you.” Keep it snappy, keep it authentic, keep it you!
Set the Vibe
Our host introduces the show format, explains the rules, and establishes the core consent-first culture that makes this experience safe and spectacular for everyone.
Ask Anything (Respectfully!)
Questions range from “What’s your most embarrassing dating story?” to “How do you______ (tee hee, not PG!)” The unpredictability keeps everyone on their toes.
Round 2: The Date & The Steal
Crowd Votes
Audience members grab their phones and vote via QR code to pair up contestants. The top two pairs with the most votes go on their mini-dates right on stage!
Live Mini-Dates
Share your name, pronouns, a fun fact, and “one thing you want the audience to know about you.” Keep it snappy, keep it authentic, keep it you!
The Steal!
Midway through, an ALARM sounds! Anyone from the audience can jump in and request to swap in as a date. The contestant can accept or decline—consent always wins.
Wildcard Magic
Our mascot brings out surprise “Wildcard Questions” or “JetPack Power-Ups” to add unexpected twists and keep the dates fresh and exciting!
Round 3: Dance Party Finale
This is where the magic really happens. DJ Mixmaster Cayes The Travel Guy & special guest DJ’s from all over the globe spin unforgettable sets that gets everyone—contestants, audience members, and our beloved mascots—onto the dance floor together.
Celebrate Connections
Whether romantic sparks flew, new friendships formed, or you just had the time of your life, the dance party is where we honor all the connections made during the evening.
Everyone’s Invited
There’s no separation between contestants and crowd anymore—we’re all just queer folks celebrating joy, authenticity, and the courage it takes to put yourself out there.
Photo Ops Galore
Grab your consent cards, pose with the mascots, and capture memories with your new friends. These photos always end up being pure gold!
Dance Card Connections
Like our contestants, the audience has also been watching and spotting potential connections all night! Before you hit the dance floor, discreetly hand in your completed ‘dance card’ with anyone from the crowd who caught your eye.
If there’s a mutual spark and consent, we’ll play cupid and connect you both the next day. Tonight? Let loose, dance freely, and enjoy the celebration, carefree!
Join the Moment
One Big Queer 1st Date is Connecticut’s freshest queer dating experience, where consent, comedy, and community take center stage! Four bold singles are matched by the crowd, brave a round of audience questions, and go on a live date…with the chance for anyone in the room to steal the show!
Hosted byMixmaster Cayes The Travel Guy, it’s a night of love, laughter, and dancing you won’t forget. Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just an incredible evening celebrating queer joy with your community, this is the event you’ve been waiting for.
Where else can you find your soulmate, make best friends, and dance until your feet hurt, all while knowing your boundaries are sacred? This is what queer community looks like at its finest!
Meet the Contestants
Each bio is a secret—no names, just vibes! Read through, smile, and pick up to four favorites to help decide who takes the stage. Your vote could spark a match, a friendship, or a surprise twist. Are you ready to mix, mingle, and match? The game starts now!
The Brainy Brunch Babe
This contestant is all about deep convos, spontaneous adventures, and a brunch table stacked with good vibes and even better company. They know their way around a playlist, love a challenge, and are always up for trying something new—whether it’s a recipe, a dance move, or a bold new connection. If you’re looking for brains, charm, and a side of sass, this is your pick.
The Dapper Daydream
Who brings a burst of color to every room, a flair for fashion, and a love of all things quirky? This contestant is a creative soul with a taste for the unexpected—think picnics with fruit, cloud-spotting, and finding secret masterpieces in the museum. Whether they’re crafting something new or dancing to a classic, they’re always ready for a little mischief and a lot of heart. Looking for someone who can match their energy and keep up with their sense of fun? This might be your match!
The City Thrift-er
Who’s the quietly charming type who’s just as happy goofing off in a thrift shop as they are swapping stories over coffee? This contestant is all about easy conversation, unexpected adventures, and finding the fun in the little things. They might seem reserved at first, but give them a chance and you’ll discover a quick wit, a big heart, and a playlist full of guilty pleasures. Ready for a date that’s laid-back, genuine, and just a little bit rock ’n’ roll? This might be your pick!
The Genuine Gem
Who’s the friend you want in your corner—always cheering you on, always ready for a new adventure? This contestant is equal parts heart and humor, with a knack for turning strangers into best friends and any day into a memory. Whether it’s lakeside laughs, botanical escapes, or a dance break to just about any song, she’s here for real connections and a little bit of mischief. Sarcasm? She’s got it. Shyness? She’s leaving it behind. Could this be your next partner in crime?
Meet the Contestants
Each bio is a secret—no names, just vibes! Read through, smile, and pick up to four favorites to help decide who takes the stage. Your vote could spark a match, a friendship, or a surprise twist. Are you ready to mix, mingle, and match? The game starts now!
The Wildcard Wanderer
Who’s always chasing the next adventure, ready to turn a walk in the woods into a full-on spectacle, and never afraid to get a little weird? This contestant is equal parts wild spirit and gentle healer, with a talent for finding magic in the unexpected and laughter in every moment. If you’re up for snacks, shenanigans, and a date that might just end with a new bug in your pocket, this might be your pick. But can you guess who it is?
The Spontaneous Sweetie
Who brings a burst of color to every room, a flair for fashion, and a love of all things quirky? This contestant is a creative soul with a taste for the unexpected—think picnics with fruit, cloud-spotting, and finding secret masterpieces in the museum. Whether they’re crafting something new or dancing to a classic, they’re always ready for a little mischief and a lot of heart. Looking for someone who can match their energy and keep up with their sense of fun? This might be your match!
The Eccentric Enchanter
Who’s the one-of-a-kind romantic with a flair for the unexpected, a passion for deep conversations, and a knack for turning any night into an adventure? Whether she’s crafting something wild, dreaming up a duet, or chasing a sunset with a jar in hand, this contestant lives life in technicolor. She’s all about sparks, swoons, and connections that make you feel seen in all the best ways. Ready for a date that’s a little bit magical and a lot unforgettable? This might be your vote—if you can guess who she is!
The Brave Beginner
Who’s stepping out of their comfort zone and onto the scene with a heart full of hope and a mind full of nerdy plans? This contestant is all about fresh starts, new friendships, and saying yes to adventure—even when it feels a little scary. Whether it’s a board game battle, a museum wander, or a spontaneous karaoke moment, she’s ready to roll the dice and see what happens. If you’re looking for someone who’s as genuine as they are gutsy, keep your eye on this one!
Meet the Contestants
Each bio is a secret—no names, just vibes! Read through, smile, and pick up to four favorites to help decide who takes the stage. Your vote could spark a match, a friendship, or a surprise twist. Are you ready to mix, mingle, and match? The game starts now!
The Bookshop Bard
Who’s the thoughtful soul who finds magic in a stack of used books, poetry in every playlist, and romance in the quiet corners of a movie theater? This contestant is a lover of stories—on the page, on the screen, and in real life. If you’re looking for someone who values friendship, deep conversations, and the kind of connection that unfolds like a favorite novel, this might be your pick. Bonus points if you love a cozy record shop or a late-night poetry reading.
The Quiet Flame
Who’s the tall glass of confidence with a gentle spirit and a knack for turning strangers into friends? This contestant is all about real talk, good laughs, and seeing where the night takes you—whether it’s a cozy dinner, a strong drink, or a heartfelt conversation. She’s stepping out of her comfort zone, showing up with courage, and ready for new connections. If you’re looking for someone who shines with quiet strength and genuine warmth, this might be your pick!
The Chill Catalyst
A master of mellow vibes and unexpected adventures, The Chill Catalyst is equal parts quirky and quietly confident. By day, they keep things cool behind the counter; by night, they’re the friend who’ll text to make sure you got home safe and then make you laugh with the most random fun facts. They’re all about good food, spontaneous city strolls, and finding joy in the little things.If you’re looking for someone who turns ordinary moments into legendary memories, The Chill Catalyst is ready to shake up your world (and maybe show you a secret talent or two).
Mix, Mingle, Match?
This isn’t your average dating show. Think speed dating meets Singled Out meets The Price Is Right—where the fun is in the surprise, and the connections go beyond just romance. You might meet your match, or maybe your match’s best friend, or maybe just find an awesome new crew. Come for the possibility of sparks, stay for the community and the laughs. Be open, be bold, and let the adventure unfold!
Who Should Go On a Live Date?
The Bergen House – Middletown, Ct- 11/29/2025
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